But along with all of the scary stuff that we hear, let’s not forget the absolutely positively thrilling stuff: the stories of young people doing good online, learning more, or reaching out to others. Internet and online technologies are changing the world, and in most cases, for the better.
With the ubiquity of Internet, mobile phones and Wi-Fi connected devices, parents may feel frustrated by their lack of concrete technical knowledge and expertise.
So, what can you as a parent do to protect your children when it seems as though your children are more tech savvy than you are?
1. Communicate with your child.
Stay involved in your child’s online activities by talking with them and showing interest in their online world. Ask them to show you their favorite websites or the latest app or online game. Use The Parent Zone's WWW approach as a guide when communicating with your children. Who are they talking to? What are they doing online? Where are they going online?
2. Digital footprints, comments and photos are forever.
“If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all” is a golden rule online. Teach your child that online activities – stay online forever. They may not be thinking about university applications or future employers, but protecting their digital reputation is crucial today.
3. Set time limits for Internet and cell phone use.
Set guidelines with respect to Internet and cell phone use and learn the warning signs of too much online time: skipping activities, meals and homework; weight loss or gain; falling grades. If you have younger children, set boundaries now. If you have older children, incorporate new rules with new devices. One family used this bedtime ritual: hugs, kisses, devices off and Smartphones handed over.
4. Stay involved and stay current of solutions.
5. Be a model for your child.
Yes, I’m calling you on it. No texting and checking your own social media accounts during dinner or family time. Get back to the basics and spend uninterrupted, unconnected quality time with your child.
6. If you face an online issue: don’t panic. Parent.
If you are faced with an online issue, don’t immediately remove your child’s electronic devices if s/he comes to you with a problem. Don’t criminalize your child for inappropriate behavior. Use the issue as a teaching point and a communication opportunity.
Last word of advice: continue parenting your child in the online world as you do in the offline world – by using your own good common sense and experience. Be supportive, set boundaries, and offer opportunities to explore and develop.
Even if you understood everything about Facebook security and settings yesterday; today you need to learn about Instagram and tomorrow who knows what it will be. The type of media or website is irrelevant, you must teach your children to make the right choices. Think of it this way, you do not teach your children to walk across one boulevard, you teach them how to cross any street safely.
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