Good Digital Parenting
Blog | Sept. 24, 2013

Empowering Students to Be InCtrl in a Digital Age

Executive Director, Cable in the Classroom

When we talk to our kids about the Internet and their digital world, have we kept up with the times? Are we trying to scare them with stories of bad things that can happen or are we teaching them to be good digital citizens who are in control of their digital lives?

The old fear-based approach doesn’t work, and it isn’t supported by the research about online risks, about risk prevention, or about effective teaching and learning. And, in an age of smart phones, tablets, game consoles, and laptops, advice like maintaining oversight by placing the family computer in the kitchen is as dated as leg warmers and MC Hammer pants. We can’t keep kids shielded from the digital world forever. Instead, we have to prepare them to be thoughtful and effective users of these devices, emphasizing how to be safe, secure, ethical and responsible digital citizens.

In research Cable in the Classroom conducted last year, educators, parents and caregivers said they realized the importance of teaching digital citizenship, but had trouble finding resources to help them do that. Where can a mom or dad find out about digital literacy, cyberbullying, maintaining a digital reputation, or copyright and plagiarism? Where can they find tips for encouraging thoughtful conversations with their kids instead of turning them off with long lists of scary things they shouldn’t do?

That’s why Cable in the Classroom created InCtrl, a series of free lessons exploring digital citizenship topics. Each lesson contains activity suggestions, talking points, background information, and helpful videos for educators, parents, afterschool program staff, and caregivers. Consider InCtrl lessons an introduction to these topics and use them to broach a subject, explore situations, and begin the dialogue between adults and kids about these important subjects.

Looking to start a conversation with your child about maintaining a great digital reputation? Or how to evaluate the credibility of what they find in an online search? InCtrl can help with thought-provoking videos and tips for exploring topics in positive and proactive ways that engage children.

In the end, we want our children to grow into independent thinkers and responsible citizens of our family, neighborhood, school, and community. Each of these roles now includes a digital element, whether doing homework online, Skyping with distant relatives, or using a government website. We want kids to be good digital citizens, too, and the first step is helping them learn how to be safely InCtrl.

Learn more about InCtrl and how you can get involved here.