This time of year, it’s almost inevitable that children begin asking for the latest gaming devices and Internet enabled gadgets. It’s also the time of year when parents begin asking themselves, is this the right time to give my child access to these things? As a parent of two young children, I too have struggled with when to give my kids their first phone, tablet, and gaming console. This year, the family will find the new Xbox One under the tree and I’ll use the opportunity to talk with my kids about the responsibilities that come with going online.
Almost all parents, 94 percent, allow their kids to use at least one online service or device, according to the Microsoft survey, “How Old is Too Young.” The survey asked consumers at what age would they allow children unsupervised access to technologies such as mobile devices, social sites, and online services. In addition, respondents were asked at what age they would talk to children about online risks.
The answer: eight years old is the average age at which parents allow independent Internet and device use, according to the survey from Microsoft.
Overall, the results reveal non-parents tend to be stricter when it comes to when and how they’d allow children to access online technologies—by an average age gap of two years. For example, 16 percent of non-parents say they would not allow children ages four to six to use a device such as a gaming console without supervision, compared to 27 percent of parents who say it’s okay. And when it comes to online services such as social networking, 19 percent of parents with kids age seven to 10 have given their kids the green light, compared to only eight percent of non-parents who would give them the go-ahead.
What’s more, of parents with children under the age of seven who responded to the survey:
While some might dismiss the age question, the fact is the interactions children experience online, and through gaming, are actually conditioning their interpersonal skills. Setting kids up for success early is important. There is no magic age, but rather, parents should take into consideration the appropriateness for their individual family and responsibility or maturity level of their child.
Microsoft has put together a few tips to help start that online safety conversation with the goals to engage, educate, enforce, and evaluate the best rules for your family:
When kids get unexpected or odd messages, even from friends, tell them not to open photos, songs, or other attachments or click links in those messages. Instead, they should first check with the sender by some means other than hitting “Reply.”
Show kids how to make social network pages private. Ask kids to think twice about who they accept as friends. Consider adding only those whom they or close friends have met in person or with whom they have friends in common. Encourage children to promote a positive image online, and be respectful with comments.
For additional guidance, regularly check our Safety & Security Center, where all of our tools and materials are housed, including our Digital Citizenship in Action Toolkit. “Like” our page on Facebook, and follow us on Twitter. Get proactive and get involved – in online safety.
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